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The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life.

Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do.

It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company… a church… a home.

The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past… we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way.

We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you… we are in charge of our Attitudes. 

You are a rare and beautiful flower
One like no other
Unique in every possible way
loved by many in numerous ways

Always and forever, together or not…
I’ll hold you dear to my heart…

You will never know what happened until you get to know about me yourself …

You said I HURT him continu8ously …

Have you listened to MY story and my pains?

Think about it.

Is it wise of you to mke a judgement based on only HIS story?

It is okay…

You will never hear it.

Take care.

Some people are so happy in their own small little world which they live in and when they get bored, their interests would be to poke their nose into everyone else’s matters ….

You know what these ’some people’ should do?

Go travel. See the world. There’s so many places and destinations to explore. So many things to do. Ask yourself honestly, how many countries have you seen ever since you started earning a decent living?

Life does NOT revolve around this 647km2 island, sweetheart …

I have no choice but to boast a little bit here.

Need to get my message across.

When I was in secondary school; I went to Beijing for 5 days for a school history trip, Hong Kong for 7 days for NCC Cadet Exchange trip (one of the best adventurous trips I had, the kayaking, hiking, watching the beautiful scenic mountaineous views, staying in the mountains …..), Indonesia in 7 days with the family (the whole mainland), Batam for shopping countless times, Saudi Arabia for 7 days for my Umrah with a stopover of 3 days in London (short but sweet) and Malaysia … don’t say lah. I’ll go on forever (i’ll touch on a bit later).

When I got out of school, I went to Tioman Island and Sibu Island umpteen times but once for a Scuba Diving Course/Trip  in Tioman.

Bali for 7 days (one of the memorable times I had), Bintan for a weekend for a good spa getaway (and also with Coffee Bean), Krabi (Thailand) for 7 days with some girl friends and recently for 5 days (beautiful place to relax my mind in), Phuket for 5 days with some girl friends again, Bangkok for 5 days (hell lutsa shopping) ………… and …….. there’s more and I need time to think and I am getting sleepyyyyy …

Anyways i know I don’t travel alot, I know more people who have seen more places and I respect that. At the end of it all, I want to show my grandchildren  the pictures of my TRAVELLING ADVENTURE, all done when I am still crispy and young … Not when I am in need of a good ironing and botox but with lotsa CPF funds lying around.

My point here is just ….. I hope my dearest fellow human beings out there get a chance to see more of the world than I did. There’s so MUCH more in life than just Singapore or Sentosa .

I am not boasting because I just got back from a trip, I am saying these because sometimes the kind of actions "some people" take, do make me upset. Really upset. (And they don’t consider the ones who will suffer because of these feelings. What a pity.)

I am not gonna make a big fuss. I just hope they at least see half of what my eyes have seen of the world (whichever part I’ve been to and will go to).

So leave your MAC makeup behind, put away the Gucci handbag, grab your best positive attitude and take off !!!

Good luck. 

What do you do when you love someone so much within a short period of time and now you’re being pulled away from him by a group of people who have known u for an entire lifetime?

What do you do when you heart belongs to only one but the rest dictates what is supposedly right in life?

What do you do when you have 2 choices - someone you love deeply or a family who gave you education, food and shelter?

What do you do to make them happy?

What do you to make him happy?

What do you do to make yourself happy?

Sometimes he hurts me without knowing it,but I still love him very much for who he is.

Sometimes I get upset over small silly matters, but I still love him for everything that he is.

Best part, its been only a month and I feel like I have loved him forever.

I just hope I dont have to sacrifice someone I love so much over nothing that matters to me …

The perfect no-stress environment is the grave.

When we change our perception we gain control.

The stress becomes a challenge, not a threat.

When we commit to action, to actually doing something rather than feeling trapped by events, the stress in our life becomes manageable.

When you leave, remember the place where you have left me. If you go back and I’m not there, it doesn’t mean I don’t love you anymore, I just love you so much that I’ve left to search for you.

I wish for a chance to say this to someone …

I have never been lost, but I will admit to being confused for several weeks.

I woke up today feeling so bloody lost and I have no idea what contributed to this.

Its my rest day and there’s so many things I want to do but yet I wish I could just sit back and sleep my rest day away. But that only means one thing, a waste of a beautiful day where I have the time to do what I want to without no one controlling my beautiful life.

And so … plans was for wakeboarding with Aslina but due to certain necessary monthly changes in the female body I think I might have to postpone it … We’ll rollerblade instead okay? Its safer.

So well … hopefully I won’t feel as lost as I did when I first woke up today by the end of today.

Toodles out now …

The beauty of independence, departure, actions that rely on themselves.

Tomorrow a new day will rise in my universe
Tomorrow I will not see your name written in my verses
I will not listen to apologies
I will ignore your remorse without guilt

Tomorrow I will forget that yesterday I was your faithful lover
Tomorrow I will have no reason to hate you
I will erase your dreams with my dreams
The wind will blow away my memories of you forever